The Song I Frequently Listen When I Feel Insecure

 Here, I come with another new article. Well, I think most of my articles are related to insecurities, low self-esteem, and our daily problems. Similarly, in this new article, I still want to talk about insecurity-uncertainty or anxiety about oneself; lack of confidence. 

If you think that I am a person who never feels insecure, then you are wrong. As a human being, at a particular time, I feel insecure about myself, tired of facing problems, and of course, it is very uncomfortable for me. I think you all know how it feels. But here, what I want to talk about is how I overcome it. 

 

Different people have different methods to overcome their insecurity. For me, there are several things I used to do to overcome this feeling. The simplest thing is that listening to a song. This method might be the most common one that other people also do. Here, I want to share the songs I used to listen to when I feel insecure or having a bad feeling.

 

1. Grow Up-Stray Kids

Even if it is hard and tiring, don't give up. Don't push yourself away. You just need time

Have you ever feel that everything you did end up with a failure? Or have you ever thought that no matter how hard you have tried, the results never satisfy? Yes, we frequently afraid of failure. We feel anxious, tired, and we even think to give up. These feelings usually drive us to insecurity. And, I have ever felt these feelings, and whenever I feel it, this song always comes first. Grow up is a healing song for me. The melody will make me relax. Also, the lyrics are not only reflecting my condition but also can give me strength. 

 

2. To My Youth-Bolbbalgan4

Maybe after all of that pain, I could shine a light even if it’s short

To My Youth is another healing song. It is very recommended for teenagers who are struggling with difficult times. For those who are in difficulties and feel insecure about it, listening to this song is like mirroring. The more you listen to this song, the more you will feel comfortable. 

 

3. Better Days-Super M

I know that it feels like, the whole world is falling down and you can't make it through. There's gonna better days, better days, better days

Better Days is a song that can calm you down. People and the world keep changing. It feels like we must running to catch it, but not all people can put themself, adjusting to the changes. This song will remind you to be strong and positive because of how hard the problems you faced, there will be better days. So, we just need to let it flows till we find better days.  

 

4. Dreams Comes True - NCT127

If I see myself on the past day, I want to say ‘you are doing well.”

Last but not least, if you think that you are not capable enough, especially to reach your dream, then dreams come true is the best song to cheer you up. It gives a new spirit for us who are discouraged, sad and have given up on our dream. This song tells you to believe in yourself.

 

These are only several songs I frequently listen to whenever I feel insecure, tired of facing the problems, and any other kinds of feeling that make my day bad. It can be alternative healing to make your day better. Yes, mostly are Korean songs. But, if you have any recommendations songs, just write it in the comment below.